Monday, July 21, 2008

Blog Cry 2 or 'The Zatoichi Who Could See'

There comes a time in just about every relationship, where the people involved have to make a choice and its not an easy choice, but it must be made. The parties involved must decide if they want things to work and leave the single life behind completely and begin to take strides with that person to solidify the life together. Difficult for some, impossible for others, and they live at close range. Now take that scenario, throw it in a pot turn it on boil, add 3cups of 1,000 miles, 2tbsp of once a year visits; 1lb of situational issues that could more than easily be resolved, throw in a pinch of two extreme emotial people. And you have a stew brewing with general confusion and anger...

What happens with that stew, is; as opposed to single life as the two may be, things may be at an odd range so that it might be a little tougher to get the situation handled faster, so the problem may linger longer than need be, and may grow larger than it should be.
Relationships work, this is true. Only if people are responsible in them. Responsibility is three parts mutual, man and womans. Problem is...if one person doesn't pick up their fair share, they don't carry the dual responsibility either, so the other party on the other hand feels that the weight is solely on their sholdiers when this happens.